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I help you, a brilliant badass, break free from societal expectations, stop letting external pressures dictate your life, and thrive as both a parent and professional.

We all have a story of who we are supposed to be as a parent.

I wanted to be the very best for my kids.

There was such a huge gap between what SOCIETY had taught me versus what I was able to provide.

My perceived flaws and “brokenness” made me resent my life, job, house, and children.

I have always deeply loved my children, and that is why that pain was do deep. I knew it wasn’t fair to resent them, and that added SHAME.

The problem was that I felt resentful because I was obligation towards everyone and everything.

THE MOMENT THAT CHANGED EVERYTHING…

I realized I could walk away from it all.

Of course there would be consequences, but the point is that I had CHOICE.

In that moment of choice, I realized I didn’t want to run away.

I wanted to be a present and connected parent.

I wanted to feel joy. And learn how to LOVE myself.

I wanted to stop parenting the way that I was parented.

From that point everything shifted for me.

I am still a working parent, living the life of my dreams.

I am a CEO, have my two teens with me fulltime, and I feel more gratitude and love every single day.

In this home, everybody gets to win. And we are all THRIVING.

I AM…

AN INTERSECTIONAL FEMINIST

I believe that identities are complex, interwoven, and layered, I use a multitude of trauma-informed modalities to help my clients transform their lives.

A CREATIVE GOOFBALL

Laughing, dancing, and moving my body are my favorite stress-relief activities. You can find me in nature when I’m not working — gardening, laying in a hammock staring at the trees, and experiencing the joy of movement outside is a healing salve for the soul.

A MOTHER

I have 3 children who all happen to be neuro-divergent, just like their badass mama. They don’t view ADHD as a superpower, but knowing how to navigate the world with ADHD as the real gem.

I have many layers, and I'm sure you do too.

We are all beautiful, messy, complex beings who can’t be defined by one or two things alone.

That's why it's so important to me to have an approach that sees and honors you as a full human being.

No toxic positivity here. You get to be messy. Here we allow ourselves to feel all the feels … and then we make decisions about how we want to move forward in our being and actions.

I used to be where you are.

And to be 100% honest, I still am sometimes. This work is life-long, but it's way easier to do and to maintain when you have a great teacher and cheerleader.

A different life is possible.

I’m living proof of that, and so are each of my clients. It starts with deciding enough is enough, and then taking action and finding the support to help you follow through even when life throws you curveballs. I’m here to help

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WORDS from CLIENTS

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“Since working with Ali, I've been taking more risks without fear of failure, because now I know failure means that I put myself out there and I'm learning.

Ali helped me at a point in my life when I needed the push to give myself permission to do what was right for me.  

I didn't even realize how many ways I wasn't advocating for myself and how I was limiting my vision of what my life could be.

I feel a confidence and self-assurance that I didn't know that I could have.

I'm giving myself permission to live the life I want.” — K.S.

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“Ali was able to meet me where I was at and reading my deeper issue quickly. She created a container for me to feel safe and compassionately asked challenging questions to help me get to the heart of my feelings. I never expected to have such breakthroughs in our first session. I laughed, I cried, and I felt held.” — H.S.

Ready to start your journey?

Don't worry if you feel a little nervous, this can feel like a big step. If you’re ready to take the plunge and build the life you want, let’s do it! If you want to chat with me first to see how we vibe and if my methods are right for you, let’s do that too!